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In 2014, I met Julie Copeland, CEO of Arbill. She'd inherited Arbill, a workplace safety products company, from her father, and for a long time, she led it out of respect for his legacy, the way he had. Then a crisis hit. Suddenly, the playbook she'd inherited didn't fit the company she now had to run. She had to decide, fast, whether to keep leading as he had, or to let go of the guilt of doing it differently and claim a vision that was actually hers.
Executive coaching helps CEOs navigate high-stakes decisions by giving them a trusted, outside perspective that pressure-tests their thinking before the decision gets made. In Julie's case, that meant two concrete shifts. First, we worked to define Arbill's Core Purpose in specific terms: keep people safe so they can enjoy life to the fullest. That gave her a fixed point to measure every hard call against, instead of defaulting to "what would Dad have done." Second, we changed her operating rhythm. Arbill had been finding out it was in trouble when the monthly financials came in, after the damage was done. We moved her team to a weekly Red-Yellow-Green status system, so problems got flagged and worked in real time instead of being discovered a month late.
That single change, weekly status instead of monthly financials, is what let Julie shift Arbill from reactive to proactive. She wasn't waiting anymore for a bad month to tell her something was wrong. She had a system built to surface it while there was still time to act. As she put it herself, the new rhythm became the team's "silver bullet."
The higher you climb, the fewer people will tell you what they really think.
Your team wants to support you, your board wants results, and your family wants you home for dinner. Almost nobody in a CEO's life is incentivized to say, “I think you're about to make a mistake." Isolation is one of the most dangerous, least talked-about risks as a leader. Not because CEOs aren't capable. Because even brilliant, capable people lose their objectivity when the stakes are personal and the outcome is uncertain.
I learned this the hard way in my own career. In 1996, I was running @Metasys, a startup that had become one of the fastest-growing private companies in America, #151 on the Inc. 500, growing 100% a year, with clients like FedEx, Monsanto, Cisco, and Levi Strauss. By every number we tracked, we were winning, but something in my gut wouldn't settle. I couldn't point to it in a single report, and I nearly talked myself out of it as stress. Instead, I stayed up from 2 a.m. to 8 a.m. one night and built a different kind of dashboard, one that looked forward instead of back, flagging risk before it showed up in the financials.
Over the next few months, the reds and yellows that dashboard surfaced turned green, one by one. That Early Warning System is what let us catch problems while there was still time to fix them, instead of finding out after the damage was done. It's exactly the kind of moment I now exist to help other CEOs walk through, because I know what it costs to trust your gut without a system to back it up.
A good coach doesn't hand you an answer. A good coach hands you a better process.
At Rhythm Systems, that process starts with a simple distinction I come back to constantly: are you making a decision, or are you making a commitment? A decision is a direction. A commitment is a promise, with your name on it, that you'll follow through with a clear deadline. High-stakes moments get dangerous when leaders treat commitments like decisions, flexible, revisable, easy to walk back the moment things get uncomfortable.
Coaching brings structure to that distinction. When Julie Copeland came to us wanting to grow Arbill without losing the culture that made it special, the hardest part wasn't the strategy; it was staying accountable to the plan once the pressure hit. That's what a coaching relationship protects. Not the idea, the follow-through.
This is also where frameworks like the Think Plan Do® methodology and the 5 C's of Accountability earn their keep. They're not theory for theory's sake; they're the scaffolding that keeps a high-stakes decision from collapsing into pure gut instinct or pure analysis paralysis.
Ask yourself: the last time you faced a decision that could reshape your company, did you have a structured way to pressure-test it? Or did you just sit with it at 2 a.m., turning it over alone?
Be curious about your own blind spots, because I promise you, you have them. Every CEO does. I do too.
The best coaching moments I've had with clients over more than two decades weren't the ones where I told them what to do. They were the ones where I asked a question that made them realize what they already knew but hadn't let themselves say out loud. That's the muscle a coach builds in you over time, the habit of pausing at the exact moment you're tempted to react, and asking, “What does the company I'm actually building need from me right now?"
That's the real outcome of great coaching. You stop looking for someone else to give you the answers and start asking yourself the questions that lead to better decisions.
The next time you're facing a decision that could change the trajectory of your company, ask yourself one question:
Who is challenging my thinking?
Not who agrees with me. Not who supports my conclusion. Who is willing to ask the question I don't want to answer?
The higher you climb as a CEO, the easier it is to mistake agreement for alignment. The people around you may be smart, capable, and committed, but they may also be hesitant to challenge your thinking when it matters most.
That's why every CEO needs someone who can step outside the business, see what you can't, and ask the questions that lead to better decisions.
If you're wrestling with a decision that will shape the future of your company, don't make it in isolation. Find someone who will challenge your assumptions before the stakes get even higher.
That's how better leaders make better decisions.